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I want to crawl into a hole and die… People think I’m no good because a package gets returned and I try to make up for it by adding extra items and being the best I can be, but at what cost? I feel like my sanity is slipping a bit…I just wanna make cute items and now I just feel so depressed because people are being mad and blaming me. Sorry I can’t get everything perfect…but what am I supposed to do?

I also gotta say I know it takes a while for me to send out things really fast, but its because I take my time and put a lot of care and love into packaging everything to be perfect. Whenever anyone orders from me or if you already have, you can see the care which is put into it…I just don’t want to send something in a plain box with a computer typed out name. Even writing everyone’s address and name means a lot to me, but I’m exhausted now. I feel like I just need to make boring packages or just stop this altogether.

I want to crawl into a hole and die… People think I’m no good because a package gets returned and I try to make up for it by adding extra items and being the best I can be, but at what cost? I feel like my sanity is slipping a bit…I just wanna make cute items and now I just feel so depressed because people are being mad and blaming me. Sorry I can’t get everything perfect…but what am I supposed to do?

I also gotta say I know it takes a while for me to send out things really fast, but its because I take my time and put a lot of care and love into packaging everything to be perfect. Whenever anyone orders from me or if you already have, you can see the care which is put into it…I just don’t want to send something in a plain box with a computer typed out name. Even writing everyone’s address and name means a lot to me, but I’m exhausted now. I feel like I just need to make boring packages or just stop this altogether.

Posted 3 months ago & Filed under i'm sick and tired and don't know what to do, i dont feel human right now, 28 notes

Notes:

  1. visualgourmandise answered: I’ve never ordered anything from u :( but I bet you put all your heart in your items as in the package,don’t worry bout those crappy people!
  2. ribcagekitten answered: Kyandi, I understand you have a lot of stress right now. I’m sorry if my package is adding to that stress. ._.
  3. redxdestiny answered: It’s crazy how rude and picky people are. They think they’re high class royalty and should be treated as such. People like that are hopeless.
  4. hautdogg answered: you are so amazing and i hate that you are getting so much flak over something that you can’t even control. Don’t forget, you’re a human too
  5. crush-zombie said: Everyone’s said pretty much what I’ve wanted to, except… FUCK YOUR HATERS.
  6. deadly-sweet answered: Is this from an Etsy order? You could put expected timelines in your policy so people won’t beat you up for it
  7. thedickfairy said: don’t stop just because a few assholes can’t take the time to appreciate what you’ve done. i’ve read wonderful things about you and your items, it’d be a shame if everything stopped =( try not to let it get you down, it’ll get better!
  8. tappietea answered: That’s really lame, you put a lot of effort and care and love into your work and your packages! Those people need to stop being selfish. :(
  9. eetee answered: Whoever’s getting their knickers in a twist needs to chill the fuck out, what bad attitudes. You’re doing your best, bitchy girls ain’t cute.
  10. dreamydarling answered: If it gets returned to you, isn’t that their fault for not picking it up? o:
  11. pajamasclub answered: kyandi
  12. nirvanairis88 answered: everyone makes mistakes and thats a good thing because you know you can learn from them and make them better for future~ hope this helps! :D
  13. kawaii-afro-fluff answered: aw :
  14. datmass said: with no* Damn typos. But yeah, those people are dumb, and you shouldn’t waste your time with them.
  15. chicka-chicka-chickabee answered: pray to mammy god!
  16. datmass answered: Don’t be so hard on yourself. In this day and age people want the best for cheap prices, witof h no regards to the creator the content.
  17. u-know-yunho answered: Chin up sweetie!
  18. star-kitten answered: I’ve sent packages before and they have been ripped open, stuff like that is super annoying :/, it’s not your fault, cheer up :]
  19. missangelarose answered: People make mistakes, it’s no big deal. Those people need to chill and quit stressing you out.
  20. arpakasso answered: take a personal brake or s/t :) go listen to some good music, its no fun if you cant do what you must happily~ i think its v sweet of you x
  21. chuchu-jenniloo answered: They shouldn’t be mad! Especially if you try to make it up to them! I’m sorry. :(
  22. lotuslullabies answered: What? Those people are crazy! You’re amazing and make such amazing things! They’re the ones to blame. :’
  23. kyandi posted this

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